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By nlpcoach on Nov 15, 2020 in Blog |

NLP Meta Programs People tend to operate differently in different contexts. Moreover, they change with the passage of time. They evolve and learn new and different ways of being. They operate in far too complex ways to be understood. However, NLP Meta Programs allow you to recognize the rules that direct people’s way of thinking. If you are someone who is interested in learning NLP Meta-Programs to gain an understanding of how people actually think, feel, act, perceive, process information, etc then read further. You will gain greater access to the kind of thinking that creates people’s reality. You will develop a high-level understanding of why do people operate differently, and how to deal with people in better ways, and have much more impactful communication. What are NLP Meta Programs? NLP Meta Programs are the perceptual filters and mental processes.  People distort, delete, and generalize information, based on these perceptual filters. They determine the attitude or orientation that people take on in various contexts and situations.  Meta programs get created by using a specific way to think and feel, and then they become our normal way, or a conditioned way to filter information.  Similarly, different ways of thinking/feeling become a Meta Program a perceptual filter. Example: If a person is thinking about every situation as what is the big picture/a big take away, or summary then over a period of time, the person uses this way (Meta Program) to sort things in every aspect, the Meta Program is called (Big Chunk or Global).  The person operating as Big Chunk or Global does not need too much information, a bigger picture works fine for them. So, if you know someone who does not like details, now you know why. Similarly, some people like procedures (Meta program) in how they do things, and then some prefer to operate from choice (Meta program).  Some people like to talk about things in the past (Meta program), some in the future (Meta program), and some in present (Meta program).  Some people like to match (Meta program) people in terms of what is being discussed, they operate from seeking similarities, and then some people like to mismatch (Meta program), they operate from dissimilarities. Based on...

By nlpcoach on Oct 3, 2020 in Blog |

Best Resources to learn NLP This article highlights the best resources to learn NLP for expanding your NLP knowledge and developing your NLP skills. The internet offers a wealth of information on NLP and continues to play a crucial role in the spread of NLP knowledge worldwide. If you would like to expand your knowledge of NLP the best way is to attend a classic NLP Practitioner program either a classroom-based or instructor-led online ICF Certification program (NLP-based coach program) – or you have the option of visiting several websites to develop and upgrade your NLP skills, books, videos, and blogs. So, highlighted here are the best resources to learn NLP to achieve better results in personal as well as professional life. All the best resources featured in this article offer valuable and helpful information. Additionally, they provide links to many more real-world resources for learning NLP. NLP University The NLP University is a training organization that provides summer residential NLP training camps at the place where NLP originated, which is the University of California in Santa Cruz, and has the best resources to learn NLP. The NLP University Website, that is www.nlpu.com is a ‘must-visit site’ for all NLP enthusiasts. It demonstrates the generosity of spirit and strong desire of NLP co-developers to share NLP knowledge with everyone in the world. On this website, you can find the Encyclopedia of Systemic NLP and NLP New Coding, written by Judith DeLozier and Robert Dilts. They are the co-developers of NLP. This NLP Encyclopedia is one of the best resources to learn NLP as it is the most comprehensive reference work on NLP. It is over 1500 pages, and is probably the most comprehensive resources available. You can scroll through the index and learn NLP fundamentals online, free of charge. You can find out more information about any particular NLP tool or technique, and aspects of its history. Thus, without spending even a penny you can also get a deeper understanding of some of the incredible NLP concepts. Furthermore, you can view up to 25 pages of the encyclopedia on this website every day. Association for Neuro-Linguistic Programming The UK-based Association for Neuro-Linguistic Programming, or ANLP UK is a not-for-profit...

By nlpcoach on Sep 26, 2020 in Blog |

What is your benchmark for success?  Are you looking to create an organization that Bill Gates or Steve Jobs created, but in 6 months? Are you looking to establish yourself as a coach and have paid clients (Investing Top $$$ with you as a coach) in a few months? Or are you looking to become a coach like Marshall Goldsmith, in 6 months?  What is your benchmark for success? Whether you are looking to start a business, or you want to learn a competency and master it ~ what is an appropriate time frame? This is a question that some of you might be facing in your day-to-day life these days. What is your reality about the benchmark for success? You may be someone who has already completed a Coach program, attended the best NLP training in India/Asia, or on the way to becoming a credentialed coach (ICF approved program). This is the bare minimum to get started. The real work, and the difference that makes the difference, is not only about attending the programs but is a sum total of other elements which are a part of who you are and your environmental factors.  The starting point about being a successful coach is when you are aware about, ‘What is your benchmark for success?’ Having said that, there are factors contributing to both, setting up a business and getting better at becoming a good coach. Becoming aware of these factors will help you reflect on what is important to you at the moment, and how critical it is for you to pursue what you want to or are currently.   – Is setting up a business going to be your source of income? – How much stamina do you have to face difficulties and rejection and criticism (at times), or handle feeling low and desperate at times? – How much time have you planned for this on a daily basis, whether your business is full time or part-time? – Perhaps you are setting up your business to serve, and not to make money? – Or are you trying to set up something as a secondary source of income? – Are you learning to become more knowledgeable, or are you...

By nlpcoach on Sep 12, 2020 in Blog |

What is Emotional Intelligence Coaching? Aditya is an engineer, who graduated from an elite institution in 2012. His mannerism speaks a lot about his upbringing. His politeness, humility, and compassion keeps him totally class-apart. As days are passing by, he is getting popular (within his team) as a leader at his workplace. Even management has begun to notice him for the kind of behaviors (exception client handling, team management, his emotional self management – demonstrating EI Coaching) he exhibits – in the last six months he has not shown a single sign of stress or irritation while performing even the most critical task despite being a fresher.  Enter, January 2020 he stands with 8 years of experience in engineering function across different sectors, and has been a receipient of an award ‘Young achievers ’30 Under 30′ for the year 2019.  At his desk is a book titled, What is Emotional Intelligence Coaching? And there is a flyer on his vision board, how to become an Emotional Intelligence Coach in India with a handwritten text on that from him, ‘This changed my life’…… Interestingly, in these years he was practicing Emotional Intelligence for Self-Coaching, and had started a parallel journey of being an Emotional Intelligence (EI) coach right at the beginning of his professional career. Today, January 15, 2020, he is being invited as a guest speaker to address a gathering of aspirational coaches/young leaders/team managers on the importance of Emotional Intelligence at the workplace. Following are few excerpts from his speech which will answer questions as: What is Emotional Intelligence Coaching? What is the way to take up the path of Emotional intelligence Coaching? Which is the best institute in India to take this up? What is the actual path to be covered to be an EI coach? Which is the certifying body? What is Emotional Intelligence Coaching? Emotional Intelligence Coaching is set up around emotions – a unique framework of coaching that helps one to understand oneself through self-talk initiated and steered by the coach around one’s emotions in the moment which can be around any stimulus, and regulate oneself by understanding and accepting his emotions. And the momentum actually begins here when one starts to see the world clearly as...

By nlpcoach on Aug 24, 2020 in Blog |

How is NLP used in business World over, a lot of people have benefited immensely on the personal front, using the incredible techniques of NLP. But there are times when people doubt that how is NLP used in business? The fact that NLP is born out of studying the excellence of people who were leaders in the different fields of psychotherapy has caused a lot of people to assume that NLP is only therapeutic in nature. The reality, however, is that over the last 40+ years, NLP flag bearers like Richard Bandler, John Grinder, Judith De Lozier, Leslie Cameron, Robert Dilts, David Gordon, Stephen Gilligan, etc have developed and contributed many models to NLP, that can be used in a range of business situations. The new NLP discoveries, models, and ways of thinking have continually culminated in the benefits of using NLP in business, voluntary service, coaching, counseling, education, parenting, health, personal development, sport, etc. So, if you would like to know more about how is NLP used in business, then read this article thoroughly. In this article, you will learn how is NLP used in business. You will get to know about the value of NLP in business by exploring why a lot of business people now widely use NLP. The following mentioned points describe how can NLP training help in business. Further, they highlight the key benefits of incorporating NLP tools and techniques in your business life: NLP helps you in improving business results and achieving remarkable success As noted above, the NLP models apply equally well to achieving great results across businesses. If you want to maximize business performance, NLP offers you many NLP tools that can serve your business objectives well. Here’s how- The NLP methodology enables you to model the best practices of successful businesses. Modeling is the essence of NLP. Understanding how you or someone else intuitively does something exceptionally well is a valuable skill in business. You can model exceptional businessmen to determine precisely what they do that gets great results. You can then transfer this model to different areas of your business. The in-depth understanding of NLP findings empower you to effect change efficiently. If one constant exists in business, it...